tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2528390669545860811.post6242963320596061885..comments2023-03-26T03:23:34.597-04:00Comments on The Empty Collar...: when the fog lifts...Unknownnoreply@blogger.comBlogger4125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2528390669545860811.post-53377420639579676552011-07-13T15:40:34.143-04:002011-07-13T15:40:34.143-04:00Yes seeing him in person does make everything all ...Yes seeing him in person does make everything all better! smiles... ND I love your analogy about the wrenches, so on target!Histoyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03602728837036164770noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2528390669545860811.post-7674973981658022182011-07-11T14:13:14.984-04:002011-07-11T14:13:14.984-04:00There is also a huge disconnect between what men t...There is also a huge disconnect between what men think and what woman think when an emotional issue comes along. A woman, oftentimes, just wants to be held and told "I love you." The man, though, often when he hears a woman complain about something thinks "how can I fix it," how can i make you not out of sorts, like you are a motor that needs to be worked on. You don't fix a motor with hugs, so men want to get out the wrenches and screwdrivers and make it work better, while the woman just needs acknowledgement and love. After a while, the man who does not know this will perceive the woman as becoming naggy because he can never scratch her itch in the right place, so she keeps on about it.<br /><br />Anyway, that's my take. Good luck!Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2528390669545860811.post-24324739283238456992011-07-11T08:50:37.933-04:002011-07-11T08:50:37.933-04:00I think you need to realize where he is coming fr...I think you need to realize where he is coming from. As sbf said, men and women, as well and doms and subs, process things differently. Women tend to over-think things, while men can accept it and move on. That is probably where is is at the moment...is has moved on and is not lingering about it. so, keep that in mind. It may still be with you, and you may be over-thinking the whole issue, but for him...it is probably a thing of the past. Try not to dwell on what has happened. Focus on the good that is to come. And I'm sure seeing him will make all the difference in the world. <br /><br />DVDauntlessVitalityhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10351897046636302746noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2528390669545860811.post-27219923951107553752011-07-10T22:55:50.737-04:002011-07-10T22:55:50.737-04:00Men are able to move past issues easier than us. W...Men are able to move past issues easier than us. We have to think about it and dissect it. Once you see him again you will be able to feel peace again. <br />Hugs :)Anonymousnoreply@blogger.com