In my previous D/s relationship, when i entered into it, it was to learn what these feelings inside were, the need to submit, to explore the kink that was over taking most all of my thoughts. I was 34, and really not thinking much beyond the moment. I was 6 years out of a very unfulfilled marriage, raising a small child, focused much more on motherhood and having a career than i was on having a "Master". And for 13 years that relationship filled my need!
But now it seems like a horse of a different color. I look at MPH and i see a man that i so "need" in my life. Is it just the "chemistry" that i feel with him, that creates that need? Or is it a culmination of timing, of being at a point in my life where "priorities" have adjusted, which in turn creates a different set of needs and wants? Or maybe it is just "Him"?
There are things that are unique to him, the way he holds me when he sleeps, the way he cares for me, even the way he fucks me, all very unique to him. He makes me feel safe, feel loved and most assuredly owned. And for me, to feel those 3 emotions, all at the same time, that is a first!
Nice post! I have had this conversation recently myself. I think the biggest part of it is him. But it is also the culmination and timing of everything coming together. Each little piece in and of itself is nice. Yet, when you can take all the ;little pieces and put them together into one big picture, that is a feeling that can be better than anything you have ever felt with anyone before. I'm so happy you have been able to find this with him.
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Ah thank you DV... and i in turn am happy for you, that you understand exactly what i am talking about!
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