"You sound distant... what is wrong?"
And i repeat "Nothing is wrong"
But to a degree, i guess i am a bit out of sorts.
However, to say why that is... well...
I don't know why...
I am hoping when i see him tomorrow
that the "out of sorts" will find its way back to being
well... in sorts?
i know 5 days without seeing him is not that long...
But it doesn't make it easier!
And well, we had a bit of a misunderstanding that kind of threw me just a bit.
It was certainly nothing major, and it is well over now...
But i guess when i get thrown...
i need more than a "its okay" from the telephone or text to regain my balance.
And i know...
I need to see him, feel him...
to find my balance.
This "getting to know you phase" is difficult at times.
To expect there to be no sharp curves, no bumps in the road...
that would just be silly!
But the strange thing is...
when i see him, when i am with him
it just feels like there are no sharp curves, no bumps...
i don't even see the road...
oblivious to life outside the "Him"!
It is that treacherous road back,
yes, that is where the danger lurks...
when life returns without him!
Men are able to move past issues easier than us. We have to think about it and dissect it. Once you see him again you will be able to feel peace again.
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I think you need to realize where he is coming from. As sbf said, men and women, as well and doms and subs, process things differently. Women tend to over-think things, while men can accept it and move on. That is probably where is is at the moment...is has moved on and is not lingering about it. so, keep that in mind. It may still be with you, and you may be over-thinking the whole issue, but for him...it is probably a thing of the past. Try not to dwell on what has happened. Focus on the good that is to come. And I'm sure seeing him will make all the difference in the world.
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There is also a huge disconnect between what men think and what woman think when an emotional issue comes along. A woman, oftentimes, just wants to be held and told "I love you." The man, though, often when he hears a woman complain about something thinks "how can I fix it," how can i make you not out of sorts, like you are a motor that needs to be worked on. You don't fix a motor with hugs, so men want to get out the wrenches and screwdrivers and make it work better, while the woman just needs acknowledgement and love. After a while, the man who does not know this will perceive the woman as becoming naggy because he can never scratch her itch in the right place, so she keeps on about it.
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Yes seeing him in person does make everything all better! smiles... ND I love your analogy about the wrenches, so on target!
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