New View for the New Year...

 So I have decided this searching stuff has been occupying way too much of my time.  I spend what little free time i have in instant messages trying to get to know the "prospective" hims out there.  It consumes all my time, and leaves very little time for anything else.  So this year, i am pulling back from all the nonsense.  A firm believer in fate, i know i just need to let go and let life work its magic!